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Contributions

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Condolences for Janise Ghidotti

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From : Donald Grossett
To : Denise & Family
Date: December 12th 2011

Although I did not know Janise well, but had met her and shared some fun at the Memorial with Denise, I was glad to have met her. We will support the "college fund" and send our sincere condolences...the Ghidotti family has been through a lot and LouAnn and I are deeply saddened by Janise's passing and the heavy burden on the family. God bless! Don & LouAnn

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From : Susie Ford
To : Janise's Children and Family
Date: December 12th 2011

You know this; your mother was beautiful inside and out. I'm in awe of her bravery during this illness. She's an inspiration to all of us and I know her spirit and love will carry on in each of you for the rest of your lives.

She was a friend in high school and I've seen her at reunions and few times since moving back to Columbus recently. She had the exact same charm, cuteness and spunk as she did back in the days of UA! She didnt change a bit! I loved her laugh and will always remember how sweet she was to me.

Take good care of yourselves,

Susie (Ford) Brehm

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From : Kelley Christopher
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 12th 2011

Janise is an Angel in heaven watching over her precious children, family and friends. She has made permanent marks on all of our hearts.
Hold her love and memories close to your hearts...

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From : Beany Carmody
To : The Ghidotti
Date: December 12th 2011

Dear Family,

I want to extend my deepest sympathy to the entire family. Janise was such a wonderful, beautiful, happy, kind, cheerful, compassionate friend. You are all in my thoughts and prayers.

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From : Stephanie Gardner Green
To : The Ghidotti Family and Ortiz Children
Date: December 12th 2011

Mr. Ghidotti, Marc, Denise, Paul, Ashley, Kristina, and Alex...I am in shock and such sadness over the loss of Janise! We shared sooo many wonderful times together as young girls and growing up. My heart is filled with such beautiful memories of "Swim and Racquet" days, a trip to Chicago with her, sleep overs, and more recently running into her in Meijers, the Irish festival, Tuttle Mall, and many other places. My children all know of "Janise Ghidotti" as they have always heard my stories about her. We all send our deepest condolences to you during this difficult time. God's Blessings, Stephanie Gardner Green

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From : Regina Merullo
To : Denise and Family
Date: December 12th 2011

To my dearest family, some things I'd like to say...
but first of all, to let you know, that I arrived okay.
I'm writing this from heaven. Here I dwell with God above.
Here, there's no more tears of sadness; here is just eternal love.

Please do not be unhappy just because I'm out of sight.
Remember that I'm with you every morning, noon and night.
That day I had to leave you when my life on earth was through,
God picked me up and hugged me and He said, "I welcome you."

It's good to have you back again; you were missed while you were gone.
As for your dearest family, they'll be here later on.
I need you here badly; you're part of my plan.
There's so much that we have to do, to help our mortal man.

God gave me a list of things, that he wished for me to do.
And foremost on the list, was to watch and care for you.
And when you lie in bed at night, the day's chores put to flight.
God and I are closest to you....in the middle of the night.

When you think of my life on earth, and all those loving years
because you are only human, they are bound to bring you tears.
But do not be afraid to cry; it does relieve the pain.
Remember there would be no flowers, unless there was some rain.

I wish that I could tell you all that God has planned.
But if I were to tell you, you wouldn't understand.
But one thing is for certain, though my life on earth is o'er.
I'm closer to you now, than I ever was before.

There are many rocky roads ahead of you and many hills to climb;
but together we can do it by taking one day at a time.
It was always my philosophy and I'd like it for you too...
that as you give unto the world, the world will give to you.

If you can help somebody who's in sorrow and pain,
then you can say to God at night......"My day was not in vain."
And now I am contented....that my life has been worthwhile,
knowing as I passed along the way, I made somebody smile.

So if you meet somebody who is sad and feeling low,
just lend a hand to pick him up, as on your way you go.
When you're walking down the street, and you've got me on your mind;
I'm walking in your footsteps only half a step behind.

And when it's time for you to go.... from that body to be free,
remember you're not going.....you're coming here to me.


God Bless you all! Many prayers to all of you!

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From : Eileen Watts
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 12th 2011

It was wonderful growing up with Janise in the neighborhood and then working with her at Kenneth's years later. I'm so sorry to hear of her passing and will keep you all in my prayers.
God Bless her,
Eileen Watts

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From : Steve Tomer
To : Janise's Family and friends
Date: December 12th 2011

I met and became a friend of Janise about 5 years ago along with her very good friend Stacey Laffler. Janise always had a smile and was a blessing to be around.

I lost my father two years ago to Melanoma and understood the battle before her and grieve her passing as it brings back memories of my father.

I unfortunately will not be able to attend her services as I will be out of town. I had hoped to meet her children and family as I wanted to let them know how much I understood their pain.

My message to you is this:


I have no clue as to why my father had to leave this world so soon, at such a young age. His life brought great meaning to many. But through this, I trust God is speaking to me somehow. God is calling me to something authentic. He is calling me to listen to his voice and discover many wonderful treasures that I would never learn if my eathly father were still with me. As I pause, I can listen better and discover the wonderful "gifts" my father imparted to me. I know with cerainly if my father was alive today, I would never have the same level of appreciation for his life. Every day that passes, I know I will miss him even more. However, the more I miss him, the more I realize his presence was a special gift to me. I pray my life will somehow touch others that way before I die.

I know Janise's life meant the same to each of you.

God Bless and my deepest sympathy,

Steve Tomer

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From : SONI KAYSE
To : DENISE & GHIDOTTI FAMILY
Date: December 13th 2011

My deepest sympathy to you at this time. Take comfort in the great memories of her and lean on your family and friends for support to help you through.
Thinking of you and sending love and prayers,
Soni

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From : Amy Adams Deibel
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 13th 2011

I have nothing but fond memories of Janise throughout our high school years. She always made me laugh with her sarcasm and quick wit. When I saw her at reunions and more recently at high school events (my kids are at UA too), she was the same Janise but there was a new depth to her spirit. She was so deeply genuine and seemed to walk with a beautiful light around her. she never once told me about her Cancer or that she was suffering in any way. Our conversations involved her concern for fellow classmates who were struggling in their own lives or the great and amazing things her kids were doing. What an amazing person, so unselfish and so brave. I will always remember her sense of humor and her uncanny ability to make me laugh. I have those moments locked away forever in my lheart and will have those sweet memories forever. UA class of 1980 has lost a beautiful soul. My prayers to your entire family. I pray that your grief will pass quickly and that all your sorrow will turn into sweet memories that you can cherish forever.

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From : Maria Ortiz
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 13th 2011

My deepest sympathy to you all and may god bless you always. To Ashley, Kristina and Alex I'll keep you in my prayers and in my heart always.


We love you all!
God Bless Always,
Aunt Maria and Grandma

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From : Sandie Anderson
To : Denise & Family
Date: December 13th 2011

Denise,

Just wanted to tell you how sorry I am and that you and your family are in my thoughts and prayers.

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From : Don & Ellen Bigg
To : Ed
Date: December 13th 2011

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Our thoughts are with you at this sad time.

Don & Ellen

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From : Maria Bellisari Matthews
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 13th 2011

I just found out that Janise was sick. I am so sorry to hear that she is gone and way too soon! I have some wonderful memories of Janise at Swim and Racquet. She was a beautiful person! My prayers are with the Ghidotti family. She will always be in our hearts.
My deepest sympathies,
Maria Bellisari Matthews

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From : Shawn and Tim Maghie
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 13th 2011

Janise had the ability to brighten anyone's day, she always made us laugh. She will be missed, but always in our hearts.

You are in our thoughts and prayers.

Shawn and Tim Maghie

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From : Brenda Diewald
To : Janise's wonderful children
Date: December 13th 2011

Ashley, Kristina, & Alex,
When Christina told me yesterday that your mom had passed away, I was in shock. Although your mom and I had not spoken in 5-6 years, I missed her friendship daily. She was my best friend and helped me through some really rough times. At a time in my life when I wanted to run away, it was your mom who taught me how important family was and that my girls needed me (she taught me to fight and to never give up). Your mom and I shared many laughs together and I have always missed those times. I am so sorry that I never got to say goodbye to your mom and to let her know how much she touched my life. Your mom will forever be watching over you 3 and guiding you.

God bless you,
Brenda Diewald

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From : Patti Potter Falvey and rest of the Potter Fami
To : The Ghidotti Family and Ortiz Children
Date: December 14th 2011

This doesnt feel ok - I am angry! Janise and I planned to be friends into old age and this isn't it. I am sorry that we must go on without Janise, but of course she is in a better place. My prayers are ith our family at this sad time. Love The Potters

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From : The Shumaker Family
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 15th 2011

Our deepest condolences to the entire family. It hurts when our loved ones are taken at any age, but when they are as young as Janise it seems to sting even more. Our entire family has fond memories of the times Debbie, Patty, and Janise spent together in middle school and high school. The pool parties at the Potter's home. The slumber parties in Janise's basement. Our dance routines for the school talent show and the "Take Me Out To The Ball Park" skit that finally won us a spot in the show. To Denise and Marc who too were family friends, we share in you loss and please know that both of you, as well as Paul, your father, Janise's children and the rest of the family will be in our hearts and prayers. We would like to think that Karen was at the gates of heaven to greet and welcome Janise. We will carry all of you in our hearts. God bless! Dorothy, Fred Jr., Steve and Debbie

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From : The dunleavy family
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 14th 2011

Our thoughts and prayers are with your family.We are sorry for your loss and im glad to have spent time with Janis.

Love,
Meredith,Keith and C.J.

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From : Bob and Kate Carlson
To : Janise's Children and Family
Date: December 15th 2011

We are so sorry for your lose. You are all in our thoughts and prayers.

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From : Jane Ebert Perkins
To : The Ghidotti family
Date: December 15th 2011

With much sadness I send my condolences. I was a high school friend and have so many wonderful, fun memories of Janise. She had a pure spirit, a kindness and sense of humor that is rare. I'm blessed to have called her friend.

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From : Regan Rooney
To : The Family and Children of Janise
Date: December 15th 2011

Dear Family and Children Of Janise,

Bereavement is so personal that few of us, unless we have experienced it ourselves, can comprehend its grief. Janise, was loved and made this world better. She truly was an earth angel. Her vitality was a continuous inspiration. I will never forget her kindness.

I send my deepest sympathy,
Regan

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From : Wendy Brady
To : the Ghidotti family
Date: December 15th 2011

God puts certain people in your life for a reason, and keeps them there. Janise was one of those people for me. I first met her at the Spa at River Ridge about ten years ago. She did an amazing job cutting and styling my unruly curly hair. I lost touch with her for a while, when she ended her styling career. I ran into her again, when I joined Lifetime Fitness, about 4 years ago. I would usually see her in the early hours of the morning working out with her sister, or going for a swim.

After losing touch with her a 2nd time, she ended up selling one of my co-workers a phone package at Verizon. She helped me get a new phone last August, never once mentioning her illness.

I wish I had known, so I could have at least kept her in my prayers during her courageous battle. Instead I will now keep her family in my prayers. May you somehow take comfort knowing she had such a positive impact on everyone she met -and she is ina better place, without pain. If there were more people like Janise in this world, it would be a much better place! May God bless you all.

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From : Joan and Dave Hornbeck
To : Ed and Family
Date: December 15th 2011

Dear Ed,
Dave and I wish your family peace during this time of loss. We are praying for your family. You are such a sweet man and I saw that your daughter really loved her Daddy. Love Joan and Dave

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From : Robin Eisenbeis
To : Ashley, Kristina and Alex, Mr. Ghidotti and Family
Date: December 15th 2011

Hugs from all of us in North Carolina. As you know, Janise and I enjoyed awesome workouts together nearly every day for about 5 years! What a blessing she was in my life and so many others. Her love for all of you was so intense! I reconnected with Janise just after her diagnosis with melanoma, and regret it wasn't sooner. I am so deeply sorry for your loss and so wish that I could be with you all tomorrow and Saturday but I will have a special run here in North Carolina in memory of your incredible Mom/Daughter/Sister. My love for all of you, Robin, Charlie, Oliver, Lydia, Dorrit and Charlie Eisenbeis

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From : Carol Sony-Nicholl
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 15th 2011

Ed and Family,
I am so very sorry for your loss of Janise. My heart goes out to you all and you are in my prayers.
God Bless! Carol Nicholl

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From : The Kurgis Family
To : Mr. Ghidotti, Paul, & Family
Date: December 15th 2011

We are so sorry to hear of your loss. We remember Janise fondly from Swim & Racquet and Sawmill Athletic Club. She always had a smile on her face and was so devoted to her family. May your happiest memories give you strength.
The Kurgis Family

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From : Joan Presutti
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 16th 2011

In the words of Padre Pio, "Pray Hope and don't Worry. Worry is useless. God is merciful and will hear your prayer. Prayer is the best weapon we have it is the key to God's heart." May God Bless Janise and all of your Family.

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From : Nancy (Grant) Smith
To : Mr. Ghidotti
Date: December 16th 2011

Heartfelt condolences to you and your family.

Janise was a blessing and I will miss her very much.

You are in my thoughts and prayers.

Much love,

Nancy

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From : Cristian's mom
To : Alex and family
Date: December 16th 2011

I was so sorry to hear of your mother's passing. Even though I met your mom not long time ago and did not spend much time together, I know she loved you and she always wanted what's best for you. You and your family have my deepest sympathy on your loss.

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From : Fran & John Carlson
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: December 16th 2011


Janise and her family will be in our prayers. Keep your family and friends close during this very difficult time,
that all may find strength and comfort in each other.

May the Lord watch over you and help you.
Love, Aunt Fran and Uncle John

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From : Lisa Craig Morton
To : Ashley, Kristina & Alex
Date: December 16th 2011

Ashley, Kristina and Alex,
My friend, Eric, and I were friends of your mom's from high school. We came to the calling hours today and were so uplifted by your mom's spirit, which was so alive in the room where your friends and family had gathered to say their good-byes and pay their final respects to your mom. Talking with Kristina about your family memories and trips to Florida and Disney World really lifted our spirits. As we left, we were really overwhelmed by what a legacy your mother has given the world in the three of you. She was an incredible mother to you and I know that her strength, humor and spirit will live on in each of you. She was a wonderful friend. I was honored to know her and I have nothing but good memories of her. Hugs and prayers to you. Lisa

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From : Sarah Carlier and family
To : Kristina and family
Date: December 17th 2011

Dear Kristina and family,
We are so sorry to hear about your mom. We just wanted to let you know that you are all in our thoughts and prayers. If there is anything we can do please let us know.

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From : Kelly Culp Alexander
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 18th 2011

Janise, my dear friend, how sad I am to hear the news. Just saw you at the reunion looking great. Shelley Biscotti Pasley called me this week with the news. My husband Lynn has had many legions removed and we pray he never has this terrible cancer.
I remember all our crazy times together. Janice, Janise, Kelly and Shelley. You will always bring a smile to my face. Condolences to your family.

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From : Tammy Yanssens
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: December 20th 2011

I just found out about your significant loss, and my heart hurts for all of you. I had the honor of meeting Janise, Dad and girls during her treatments, and I was blessed to know her in such a short time. Your family is so strong and wonderful, and though another of your most precious members is gone, she is an angel in heaven and always with you. Please take care. My deepest sympathy to you all. Fondly, Tammy (Janise's first chemo nurse)

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From : Beth (Bubenchik) D'Amico
To : Ed, Denise, Marc, and Paul
Date: December 20th 2011

Janice held a special place in our hearts. We all grew up together. Wayne was going to marry her!( Of course they were only five!) We love all of you dearly. Janice and I joked about your mom wanting a perm. Janice wouldn't do it , so I did! Remember our trip to Chicago? We had a lot of good times. Denise and Marc my number is 613-477-5478. Please call and let's get together.

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From : denise
To : janise
Date: March 4th 2012

Janise, I think about you everyday and still believe you will walk in the door to visit me....so difficult..losing mom and then you....feel like both my confidants are with god...love you both....I guess I need to put on my running shoes to see you and mom again.....

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From : Crecelius Family
To : Giuliani Family
Date: January 13th 2017

Our family has such fond memories of our times together with your mom and dad! We send our love and sympathy.
Sue, Bill, and Family

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