Edward Ghidotti
October 20 1932 - May 3 2020
Services:
Private Graveside Service
Friday May 8th 2020 at 2:00 pm
Resurrection Cemetery
9571 North High Street
Lewis Center
, Ohio 43035
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Obituary
Edward L. "Baldo" Ghidotti of Upper Arlington, Ohio passed away on Sunday, May 3, 2020 at the age of 87 as a result of complications from COVID-19. A wonderful human being that spent his entire life serving others in so many different ways. Whether as a son, brother, spouse, father, father-in-law, grandfather (aka Nono), great-grandfather or simply just a friend, Ed was always there to help in any way that he could to ensure that everyone around him knew that their issues or concerns - no matter how important or trivial - were more
important than whatever Ed might be dealing with himself. Selfless is the best word that describes how Ed lived his entire life. Ed (or as his friends called him Eddie) was born at Roseland Community Hospital on October 20, 1932 as the second son of Frank and Albina Ghidotti. Frank and Albina emigrated from Tremosine Italy in the 1920's and operated a saloon called the "High Step Inn" on the south side of Chicago in the early 1930's. Ed graduated in 1950 from Fenger High School in Chicago, and went on to receive a Bachelor of Science in Chemistry from the University of Illinois (Champaign-Urbana). Following graduation, Ed married Bette Mae Little and for more than five decades this "union" exhibited, in the best way possible, what it meant to be dedicated to one's self to their spouse. Their love was enduring and everlasting and was best showcased with the care and attention that Ed provided Bette during her eight year battle with Ovarian Cancer. Back in the mid 1950's and shortly after Ed and Bette were married, Ed served for two years in the US Army with the 29th Armored Infantry Battalion in Gelnhausen Germany. While in Germany, Bette gave birth to the couple's first child - Marc. Upon Ed's discharge from the US Army, Ed began his professional career with the Borden Chemical Company in Chicago. After several years with Borden, Ed was asked to transfer with his wife and, by that time, four children to
Columbus, Ohio in 1964. Shortly after uprooting his family of six with this move to Columbus, however, Ed decided that he wanted to forge a new career path and entered the financial planning business as a stockbroker with Paine Webber Jackson & Curtis. Ed stayed with Paine Webber Jackson & Curtis through several name changes and mergers and retired from UBS after 45 years of service. Ed is predeceased by his wife Bette of 52 years, his second wife, Marge Prosser, of seven years and Ed and Bette's third child, Janise Marie Ghidotti. Ed is survived by his brother, Bruno Ghidotti (92), Ed and Bette's other three children - Marc (Kristi), Denise, and Paul (Kathie), along with nine grandchildren - Ashley, Kristina, Matthew, Weston, Adrianne, Will, Alex, Lauren, and Claire; and one great grandchild - Hadley Janise. What was most important to Ed during his lifetime was family. One of Ed's greatest attributes was being a great listener to anyone that needed his ear; as well as providing thoughtful, insightful and compassionate advice. Ed was a man of deep faith, but he didn't have to vocalize his Christian beliefs to anybody, as he acted it out every day of his long and enriched life. Ed loved sports and was an active participant of many, including tennis and swimming. In the summer, you could find Ed and his tennis buddies on Court 4 at the Swim and Racket Club, and during the winter at the Racquet Club of Columbus with the same group. In 1989, Ed and Bette decided to be one of the first owners of a new condominium community in Siesta Key, Florida known as "Bayside". Bayside was the family getaway for all of Ed's family for the last three plus decades and has provided wonderful memories for the entire Ghidotti Family. Two years after Bette had passed away, Ed was reintroduced to a former work associate from UBS - Marge Prosser - and Ed and Margie started dating and a few years later were married. It has been said that, sadly, many people go through their entire life and never find true love; however, Ed was fortunate enough to have found it twice. Ed leaves behind countless friends from Upper Arlington, UBS, First Community Village, Siesta Key, and certainly the Swim and Racket Club where he was an active/avid member of that club for more than 50 years! In light of COVID-19, only immediate family are able to attend a memorial service at Resurrection Cemetery where Ed will be laid to rest immediately adjacent to Bette. It is the hope of our family that we can have a celebration of Ed's life at some time later this year when it is safe to get groups of people together again. In lieu of flowers, please consider a small donation to benefit Ovarian Cancer research - a passion of Ed's since Bette's diagnosis. Donations can be made with the following research organization:
ocrahope.org/getinvolved/ways-to-give. In addition, and in the true spirit of what Ed really cared about - that is people and memories - please go to www.johnquint.com and leave a comment about your favorite "Ed memory." This will be an everlasting keepsake for our family. Arrangements entrusted with the JOHN QUINT TREBONI FUNERAL HOME, 1177 West Fifth Avenue, Columbus.
Condolences for Edward Ghidotti
From : Howard Burnett
To : The Ghidotti family
Date: May 6th 2020
I was fortunate enough to begin my investment career at the original Paine,Webber Jackson, & Curtis with Eddie. He was the one of the most thoughtful and caring individual that I ever worked with.
I was able to learn a great deal from him in those early years. The lessons that I learned from him have lasted through the last 40 years.
Eddie will be missed by everyone but we all have wonderful memories.
Howard Burnett
Bexley, Ohio
From : Carol Crum Bratys
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: May 6th 2020
I cannot put into words how sad I am for your loss. Your Dad was such a true and dear friend to my parents and family. I especially remember how fun and enjoyable he was to chat with during all of those July 4 th cookouts. He always had a smile on his face and laughed a lot ! I fondly remember seeing him at St. Brendan’s last year after a mass Paul brought him to and he was just as smiley and friendly as ever! He even told me ȁCyou look great !ȁD LOL . He will be missed by many ! You are all in my thoughts and prayers%uD83D%uDE4F%uD83C%uDFFB❤%uFE0F, Carol
From : Thomas Harvey
To : Ghidotti family
Date: May 6th 2020
Ed and I were frequent tennis partners at the Racquet Club. Ed was among the nicest, most gentlemanly, pleasant person I have ever met. Always a smile and loved a joke; Ed will be missed.
RIP
From : Chuck Claibourne
To : The Ghidotti family
Date: May 6th 2020
Ed will be missed by his tennis friends. He said to me "you make me laugh",it wasn't that difficult.Still playing tennis with us at age 87.I will miss him.
From : Jill and Brian McNaughton
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: May 6th 2020
While we have only known Ed for seven years as he married our friend, Margie Prosser, we concur with his tribute that was in the Dispatch. He was a kind, caring individual who loved his family and always had a smile on his face. We marveled at his ability to play tennis well into his 80's... a life well lived,indeed.
From : JV and Amy Wulf
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: May 6th 2020
I just finished reading the obituary in the Dispatch. What a wonderful tribute for a wonderful man. We are so grateful to have been included in the Bayside getaway and the Swim and Racquet memories. You all are chips of the old block and so dedicated to him. I hope we will be in town to attend the celebration of his life and catch up with all of you. Our love and prayers to you all.
From : Shereda Buckingham
To : Ed's family
Date: May 7th 2020
I am saddened beyond words to find out that Ed has left us. I was BLESSED to care for Ed at his primary doctors office (Dr Castor). He was a lovely patient and his kindness was so genuine. I always loved it when I saw that Ed and Marge were on the patient appointment list for that day. Please know that I am truly sorry for your loss. My prayers go before God for you.
From : Thomas Hoffman
To : Ed's Family
Date: May 7th 2020
I was saddened to learn of Ed's passing. My fond memories of him come from playing together in the Monday night tennis league for over 10 years. We all had a great time and Ed was always a bright spot in the group. With every nice shot anyone made Ed followed up with a quick "Look-at-that!!". I can hear him now.
From : Nancy Goss
To : The Family
Date: May 8th 2020
When I read the obit in the paper, I felt you described your Dad perfectly. He was a very special man who cared so deeply for his family and friends. I have many wonderful memories of your Mom and Dad and Marge and of all the family. I am sorry for your loss, but know that you have many happy memories. Nancy Goss
From : Susan Menke
To : The Ghidotti family
Date: May 8th 2020
So sorry to hear about Eddie. He was one of my favorite people when we worked together at Paine Webber. I was thrilled when my good friend Margie told me they were married. They were a good match and had some wonderful years together. Prayers for the family.
From : Tom Marchese
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: May 14th 2020
To Marc, Denise and Paul, my heartfelt condolences to you and your families. Your Dad and Mom were such close friends with my parents and there are so many wonderful memories of our two families growing up together. Your Dad and Mom were very special people.
From : Jim and Becky Dockter
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: May 15th 2020
What great memories of the entire Ghidotti Family in the 70's and 80's in Upper Arlington, Cedar Point, and Swim & Racquet. Scott and Paul still keep in touch. What a beautiful tribute to a special person. We will light a candle and we thank the Lord for our time with Ed and the entire Ghidotti Family.
Jim and Becky Dockter...Palm Beach Gardens, FL
From : Wayne and Barbara Wookey
To : Paul Ghidotti and Family
Date: May 18th 2020
Dear Paul and Family,
Barbara and I were very sorry to get the news about Ed. Over the last few years, we have had many opportunities to see and talk with him at McConnell Heart Health and The Swim & Racquet senior potlucks.
We have known Ed for over fifty years. He was one of the most positive and happy individuals we have ever known. He endured more than his share of challenging times, but he never lost his zest for life and joy in his friends and family. He was and still is a model for all of us. He will be missed, and it is an understatement to say that The Swim & Racquet Club will never be the same without Ed Ghidotti.
Wayne and Barbara Wookey
From : Elayne Gunder
To : Ghidotti Family
Date: May 18th 2020
Although I just found out about Ed's passing, my wish is to add that I too found him a remarkable kind man with a wonderful laugh and smile. It was an honor to call him a PaineWebber/UBS friend. Many many will miss him and many of us learned life important lesson of kindness.
From : The Ed Crum Family
To : The Ghidotti Family
Date: May 21st 2020
We are so sorry to hear of your loss. Your Dad was a dear friend to my parents and family over many years. He was aa devoted husband to your Mom and to all of your family. Whenever I think of our 4th of July picnic's and Swim and Racquet Club, it will bring me memories of him. Our thoughts and prayers are with you all.